Sunday, November 18, 2012

To My Son and My Daughter...

Dear Baby Boy and Baby Girl,
         Yesterday was your reveal party. So many people came to celebrate with your Mom and Dad as we learned if you were boys, girls, or one of each. The decorations and food looked wonderful and everyone recorded their guess of what they thought you would be. We had a giant box filled with balloons, one side of the box for each of you. Everyone was dying to know and the anticipation had been building all week long.
         On Tuesday, we enjoyed our almost 2 hour ultrasound appointment and getting to ooh and ahh over your digits, limbs, four-chambered hearts, and even your faces. Baby Boy, you were kicking your poor sister who eventually put her hand up to shield her face from your tiny, rambunxious feet. Now I know that you are the active one, while your sister is more reserved. I appreciate that Little Girl, as you are growing very close to my stomach and my lungs, so thank you for holding your kicks back or keeping them very soft. We had so much fun watching you both together and seeing how wonderfully you are developing. We get to peek at you some more in just another month!
         Back to the reveal party...
         We first had to cut through all the tape on the box (a lovely box which your Auntie Tab made by the way for your cousin Harison) which made everyone crazy since they had to wait even longer. Then we prepared to open Baby A's side...and.....BLUE balloons! Your father thrust his fists into the air with happiness! I knew one of you was a boy! But I had thought Baby B was a boy. Now I knew who all the kicking was coming from. My little boy--Baby A!
        Next was Baby B's side....our last chance for a girl. If there was blue, that meant all boy cousins in the Rittner family for the second generation in a row. If there was pink, that meant the first girl on the Rittner side in over 60 years and some very excited grandparents and great grandparents. I started preparing myself for blue balloons for some reason, but slowly as we opened the second side of the box, pink and white polka-dots began to emerge. I barely had digested the news and let it sink in enough to get really excited, when your Auntie Kristina came screaming and jumping to hug me! She was so so excited because she knew that your Dad and I had recieved exactly what we wanted: one boy and one girl. Tears had started to form in my eyes before the pink balloons could even come all the way out of the box, but your Auntie's excitement engulfed me in a giant hug before I could start crying. Again your father fist pumped as the crowd went wild and cheered for each of you!
        Our party was so fun and there were so many people who came to celebrate. You are so loved and people are so excited to meet you. Your Dad and I are thrilled to know that we have both a boy and a girl on the way. We are working on picking out your names. This is something I have always worried I would stress over and obsess over, but I think we have it narrowed down to just a few and will be making a decision soon. You have made us so so happy! We love you so very much!

Love,
Your Very Excited Mom
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Sunday, November 11, 2012

The First Real Kick!

Hello Babies!
        We have less than a week until Daddy and I find out what each of you are! We are getting very excited. In fact, we are so excited that we decided to have a big party this weekend to find out with everyone else. All of our family members and friends will be there to celebrate with us. We will be happy no matter what you are, but it will be exciting to know something new about what makes each of you, YOU!
        This week I have started feeling you more and more. Baby A, I don't know if you are more active than your sibling, but I feel you the most. Baby B, I have finally recieved a few little movements from you, which made me feel glad to know you are doing okay in there! Last Tuesday, I was having a horrible day. I was tired, I was stressed, and I was sick of working. I came home after fighting tears all day long. I was done. I went to bed very early and just layed there holding my belly, wondering how I was going to get up and go to work the next day, wondering how I was going to keep going. I started talking to you and I asked you for a favor for your Mama. You don't remember and you could probably barely hear me, but I said, "Please, can't you give me just a little something? A kick or a punch, something distinct, so I know you are there and so I can go to sleep and get up and face another day?" I sighed a big sigh and lay there in the dark for another five minutes....until...POW! A distinct kick was felt both inside and out in my lower belly. I immediately responded with a GASP! followed by a rush of tears of joy. They trickled down my cheeks as I prayed and thanked the Lord. I was able to settle down and ignore my current stresses of the day to fall asleep fast. Ahh.
          That was a few days ago. Now I am feeling both of you even more and loving every minute of it. I get to "see" you again on Tuesday and learn more about how you are doing. I am getting bigger and bigger and more and more uncomfortable. Something that has come as a surprise, but makes sense being that there are two of you taking up space in my short, petite body. I have been a little worried that I am having some early contractions this week though. Just remember, you have quite some time to keep growing and getting better. Stay in there as long as you can and be nice to each other. Mama needs to keep working and getting ready for you. Daddy is working on the basement so we can move everything out of your room and make it pretty for you. I love you both and I can't wait to learn your genders on Saturday!

Love Always,
Your Mama